Community Penises & Side Chicks

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Hey Lovies,

We‘re just going to get right down to it. So earlier today while some of us were in church, there was drama on the Gram, AGAIN!! Ahhhh mean! What is going on with erryone? Can’t we all just get along?

Actually, no, please no one should get along….just yet. So today, it’s all about the side chicks, actually, the nerve of the side chicks and their supporters club.
Annie Idibia, wife to the world famous 2face Idibia called out a woman who apparently has been meddling in Annie’s marriage. Looks like a bad case of side chick getting busted. Below is the screen shot Annie posted on Gram earlier today but she has since it taken down.


Now the gist flowing from SDK’s blog is that the girl in the picture is Bime, Raymond Dokpesi’s niece, and ironically she used to date 2Face before there was Annie.
Anyways, I as a person does NOT give a rats behind if the man disvirgined you, taught you how to drive, how to use a damn fork and knife; payed for your tuition, disvirgined you all over again;👏🏽ONCE 👏🏽HE 👏🏽IS MARRIED 👏🏽TO 👏🏽ANOTHER 👏🏽WOMAN 👏🏽YOU 👏🏽NEED 👏🏽TO BACK 👏🏽OFF!! 👏🏽👏🏽BACK OFF, 👏🏽👏🏽BACK THE HELL OFF.👏🏽👏🏽(Yes, I'm clapping in-between each word). Sisi town council, BACK OFF.

I have read a ton of comments tonight on various platforms about this matter and to say I’m shocked at some of the things I’ve read is putting it lightly. I’ve read of some people who would gladly help the Bime girl oust Annie out of her marriage. Annie’s crime? Oh.. because she publicly outed Bime.
Mehnnnn the nerve some people got though. You want to join hands with the side chicks to ruin someone’s marriage? Some people say Annie deserves whatever poison Bime has brought to her home because when she married 2face she knew she married a community penis. I swear I had to laugh at the nerve, especially when this same people calling 2face a community penis are married to men who are way beyond community penises, but are more like a global penis phenomenon, or better still United Nations Penises. So not only is the community banging your man, but the whole freaking world is, Nigerian girls, Americans, Asians, Jamaicans, Ghanaians, Spanish etc. Yet, this same women are bold enough to think this is okay?

When have we become the type of women who have no shame really? People take this internet liberation shebang way beyond necessity. Mice becoming lions behind computers, people caught up in this fake luxe life they see on the internet, social climbers arrant everywhere. All these nonsense fuels the arrogance that accompanies “Yes, I’m sleeping with your husband, and if you’re not careful I will have thugs beat the crap out of you just before I kick your ass out of your home and marry your husband”. ......Sheeesh, rada, rada spewing.


Yes, there have been mistresses from days of old, and unfortunately a lot of men lack the discipline we women so desperately need them to have, therefore they become community penises. HOWEVER, there is no community without people in it. A penis does not become community anything if there are no community women to put it in. When the penis comes, you can freaking say NO, THANK YOU. It’s that simple. Really, it is VERY simple. I don’t know how these women sleep at night.


I've also heard people say "ehn, how many side chicks can one blame or take down, it is the man who is solely to blame". I DISAGREE 200%. How about we all practice individual personal accountability for goodness sake!! Listen, we have armed robbers in every part of the world, it almost seems like for every gang taken down three more erupt, even more dangerous than the ones already in jail. Has that ever stopped banks from taking security measures (personal accountability a.k.a. do your own part) No bank has ever said "well, it doesn't matter what we do, there will always be thieves trying to rob us so we might as will leave the door wide open, not hire security personnel, no need for vaults, no need for bullet proof windows separating cashiers from non-banking staff, tracking devices etc.".
No bank has ever said that. So stop blaming the men ALONE. You, who keeps opening your ass to them is just as much to blame.


There is NO dignity is snatching another person’s husband. There is no dignity being the side chick. I don’t care how much you think he loves you, I don’t care how much he gives you – get your ass working and you won’t need a man to feed you. There’s just no dignity being a shameless thot. You can do better!! Let’s put aside that crap about “I don’t care what people say about me”; actually you do care when you are within the confines of your privacy. Being disgraceful and saying you don’t care is you trying to say you are bigger than what people think of you, therefore unaffected by it. Unfortunately you do care what people think about you that’s why you allow a man that cannot peacefully be yours fool you. Any woman who can be above what others think is one that is smart enough not to be caught in this ratchet side thot lifestyle.

Get out of it today! Today! Get out of it. You deserve better. You can have better, you can do better. Why do you keep your va**na stuck on the bus line when you can walk into a car dealership and get a very dope car that’s all yours.
What legacy are you leaving behind? Will your children be proud of you? Your parents? Now I know some thots were raised by senior thots so I can understand it’s a family disease. But for you who was raised by decent human beings but somehow unfortunately found herself as a side chick, could you boldly tell your parents, your children, or your pastor/any other authority figure in your life, that you are a side chick? If you can’t, you need to be sensible and get out of there. Now for those of you who can boldly tell your parents, children, pastors that you sleep with married men and threaten to or even go ahead with beating their wives, listen, you are not of this world. Let’s just say it, you do not belong here!


This matter got me so riled up tonight! Phewwwww. I need to go lay down.

Remember, there is no community penis if there are no community vaginas. Lock yours up, and the penis will be forced to be a single citizen, and not United Nations.

Have a blessed week y’all.

 Xoxo
Savannah

Welcome to 2016!

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Hiii Loves,

Happy New Year! I’m so super thankful for so many things. I’ve missed writing, but I needed the break to just chill, think, pray, wait on God, hear, think again, pray some more, gather momentum for my 2016 goals. I don’t do New Year resolutions. I stopped a few years ago and it works for me. However I have goals that I do not seriously set because I can be hard on myself, feeling disappointed in myself if I do not achieve what I planned to do. This just results in unconscious self-loath that just worsens everything. Now this is some form of reverse psychology for me and it works for me. At the end of the day I’m good. What works for you? How do you kick off a new year/season? I would love to hear!

So it’s a new month today! I can’t believe it’s already a month into the new year, as in!! I was just in Dubai for the New Year on vacation. How does time fly like this?
I hope to God everyone who visited this blog last year made it through into the New Year and is already on a great sail for 2016. I wish I had a magic wand and I could just wave it, wipe all your tears away, grant you all your heart’s desires…. Just make life perfect for you. One day sha…
I’ll resume posting as usual gist in a few days. Just got to get my stories. I literally shut my ears the entire January to aproko gist…lol…

I really do pray that this new month of February will be your best month yet. May everything you waited on God for in the month of January come to manifestation. May you find favor before God & man.  Nothing is ever difficult for you again. No one will ever ask where your God is. Before a need arises, God will make provision. You shall be happy and fulfilled this year 2016. Nothing passes you. And lastly, God will level all everlasting mountains & perpetual hills of problems; in Jesus Precious Name! Amen!!

I rejoice with you. I’m thankful for you. I look forward to great, great, great news from everyone this month & all through 2016!

Cheers & God Bless.

Love is a beautiful thing….