Your husband has been molesting a child

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Kate: Ohhh God…uncle, uncle, leave me oo. Uncle Ifeanyi leave me o. I don’t like all this. Please leave me alone. I’m just 13 years old. Aunty will kill me if she finds out.

Ifeanyi: But I love you Kate. I must have you. I won’t do much. I just want to touch you a little. Let me just kiss you a little…just a little. I promise I won’t touch anywhere.

Kate: Sobbing……Uncle Ifeanyi please….I beg you in the name of God please don’t do this. Please sir.

Ifeanyi: What are you afraid of ehn? Your aunty won’t find out. It’s just a little kiss. Don’t you watch it in the movies? Stop pretending. I’m sure those small small boys in your class have kissed you before.

Kate: Still sobbing….ahhh Uncle, I’ve never kissed anyone before.

She runs to the back of the couch & Ifeanyi runs after her. She runs again, putting some distance between them.

Ifeanyi: My friend come here, where are you running to? Do you want me to beat you? Come here right now. If you don’t do what I ask of you I’ll stop paying your school fees and I’ll make life a living hell for you. Come right here.

Kate: Sobbing ups an ante. She gets on her knees and starts begging again. Uncle please don’t stop paying my school fees. You know my parents are poor. Please sir…please.

Ifeanyi: Then if you don’t want to find yourself back in the village you better be a good girl and meet me in the bedroom right now. Otherwise I will also make sure my wife stops sending money to your parents. You are very ungrateful. Do you know how many girls would like to live in our house? Instead of you to show me some appreciation you are crying there.

He walks away to the bedroom

Kate: Shivering…sobbing…hands on her head. God….God….please help me. How can I sleep with my cousin’s husband? I’m just 13 yrs old. I’m a virgin. How will I explain this to my parents? What will I do if he stops paying my school fees? What about my parents in the village.

Ifeanyi: Shouts from the room “Kate..Kate…where are you”.

Kate: Walks towards the bedroom still sobbing and shivering…

Fast forward 6 months….

Jessica (Ifeanyi’s wife\Kate’s cousin) is for some reason feeling uneasy haven noticed some looks passed between Kate & Ifeanyi, & Kate becoming saucy these days. She decides to get to the bottom of it by buttering Kate up with some big sister talk.

Jessica: Kate, my dear come and sit down. Now that you are blossoming into a woman I want to talk to you about a few things. So Jessica goes on and on about boys, sex & chastity. Then she hits the nail on the head. Kate, has any man touched you, you know maybe kissed you or fondled your breasts? Maybe those boys in your class?

Kate: Vigorously shakes her head and muffles “NO aunty”.

Jessica: Ehn ehn… that’s good. Good girl. What about in this house? Has uncle Ifeanyi tried to show you some love by you know…kissing you?

Kate: Looks uncomfortably at Jessica & shakes her head unconvincingly.

Jessica: ohh really okay. You know you can tell me anything. I won’t beat you and I won’t tell anyone. I’m your sister and I should be your confidant. If anyone is hurting you including my husband Ifeanyi, I promise to protect you. Please tell me the truth. I can see you are hiding something from me.

Kate: Eyes welled up with tears she can’t hold back any longer, gets on her knees and buries her head in Jessica’s laps, sobbing uncontrollably.

Jessica: It’s okay my darling. What did my husband do to you?

Kate then proceeds to tell Jessica everything that has transpired in the last 6 months. Not only has Ifeanyi kissed and fondled her, he has also taken her virginity.

Dear readers,
The scenario above although fictional is happening everyday around us. Young ladies left in the care of family members are being sexually abused by men in the house- specifically husbands to their cousins, sisters, aunty; and in so many cases the head of the house molests the domestic maid.

I belong to a couple of groups on Facebook & it has now become a weekly thing whereby there’s someone who poses very similar questions to the group like: I just found out my husband has been sleeping with my maid or my husband has been sleeping with my teenage family member, what do I do? Should I report him to family members? Should I send the victim away & keep my mouth shut so as to protect my husband and marriage?” How do I explain to family members who do not understand why I am returning the girl?

What baffles me here is that none of these ladies ask how they can help the victim. How can she be repatriated? Can she even be? Do people not understand the effects sexual molestation have on young ladies or do we just don’t care because they are not our children? Is protecting your husband\marriage more important than a child’s life? Have you considered your own female child could be molested by their own father? How does one keep loving a man like that? How can you bring yourself to have sexual relations with him haven found out he's a child molester? How does one continue to respect a man like that? Does for better, for worse still count here? Have you thought? Have you thought? Have you thought?


Dear readers, if you found yourself (God Forbid) in Jessica’s shoes what would you do?

Xoxo...Love is a beautiful thing.

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November 3, 2014 at 2:54 PM delete

ahhhhh dem never born the husband who will do this well!! Hissssss

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November 3, 2014 at 3:24 PM delete

Really this is a tough but not so tough one either. As for me I don't know how I'll be able to look at him anymore. I mean, the marriage would have instantly degenerated once I hear and confirm that he is indeed guilty.

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November 3, 2014 at 3:26 PM delete

hum plx o, der re some girls that lie so one must tink well b4 acceptn de husband rily do that to de girls. some little girls knw more dan we grown women

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November 4, 2014 at 5:51 PM delete

Hummm... I will set a trap for that man to make sure i gather my evidence, if thats true then that man is a gunner. Before i let him go, i will lure him into bed naked ( with the light off) atarodo( super hot chilling paste) under the bed, they i will massage his prick and anus with it......then he can go straight to hell. Xx ikebesuper

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November 5, 2014 at 3:15 PM delete

loll @Ikebesuper.....
I read this story to my friend and she was like these days every home needs a nanny cam, not to check up on the nanny but to see what the husband is doing. Men these days are dogs!

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November 9, 2014 at 2:37 PM delete

I might likely go with ikebesuper. I will definitely make an example of him,ensuring he's prosecuted. We can talk about our marriage and forgiveness after He has done the time. What if repeats it on our girls? What would I do then?

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